Im back!!!!

Sorry i neglected this for a while. Ive just finished university so i was busy doing my exams. Now not only am i single young mum i m now a bum and on benefits!! Do you want to hear a joke? i had an interview with the benefit people and do you know what they told me to do? They said to that me that i am better off not getting a job and if i do i cant work any more than 16 hrs a week or i could do volunter work??????
The whole point of me to go back to university was to better myself so i can provide for my son, and now i ve been told its useless im better off staying on the dole?????
So now it is my aim to find a job and prove to those pratts that you can be a single parent and be better off working!!!

God i still cant belive them!!!

But any how im heading off now, going out to enjoy the rainey weather!! I shall keep you informed on my battle!!

Naomi
xxx

Sleeping

Forgot to say i now have had 4 night of full sleep!!!
Whoopie!!! Yippppeeeeeee!!!!!!!!

My birthday!

Well i turned 25 yesterday and i realised something. When i was younger i used to think birthdays were just for you to celebrate, but ever since ive had jacob, it makes you realise that your mum will also be celebratin, or thinking about the day she gave birth to you, so because of that i want to say thank you to my mum for giving me life. How corny is that but its true if it wasnt for her i wouldnt be sitting here! So the next time its your birthday just remember that thought! lol
On a more funny night iam going out tonight and have been told to buy something sensable because im getting old ha ha!!!

What is a single mum?

I was asked the other day, how could i be a single mum when i have a huge net work of family and not so huge ciricle of friends. Yes these people can help give bottles, change a few bums and if you ve got a extra good circle sometimes a night off just to let your hair down and try and remember who you actually r, but what about all the other stuff? When you lie in bed worrying if your doing a good job cos you ve no one else to help you in that department, or late at night when you sneak in to snatch a little look at them sleeping you have no one else to give that sneaky little smile, that says ' our child is cutest boy in the world!'. Or on family trips outs you can see mums and dads playing happy families and you dread that one day, the all but important question will be asked, about is his daddy. So those people who think that there is no such thing as single parents family, try walking in the shoes before judgement!!!!!!!!!!!

i managed about 4 hours sleep last nite. im so tried!! Still have loads of work to do and yes im spending my time working on this!! lol! May be not very senisble but hey i have to something to take my mind of everything!!!
nothing much intresting has happened lately so i will sign off and you never know prince charming will appear this afternoon to risk me and my son away for a holiday and spoil us rotten, may be then if he is so rich i could just concentrate on the most important thing in my life my son!
bye for now
xx

Hello!

Well this is all new to me so bare with me. And if you find this boring will tough luck i m enjoying doing it so bbbbbyeeeeee!! And to the people who are left hello!!
I am sitting on the computer and im meant to be studying but i ve already done an hour an half so i think i deserve a break?
my son is away to nursery at the mo so am debating rather or not to go and put my head down for a while, i am so tired, my son has just turned to and still doesnt sleep all night! If you have any ideas plus share im a walking zombie!!
I think this should be enough until tomorrow!!
Wish me luck on tryiing to hold my eyes open long enough to do my studying then look after my sonn till his bed time at 7 only 8 hours but im doomed!!!
till tomorrow bye
xxxx